Do you ever find yourself dreaming about having a music career? Perhaps you like to watch American Idol and can easily imagine yourself performing on TV in front of a live audience.
On the other hand, the thought of doing something like that might just scare you to death!
Don't worry, you are not alone. Many talented singers, songwriters, and musicians, are shy and struggle with stage-fright. It is not that uncommon.
But rather than putting your music career on hold, I suggest you begin to face your fear by taking small, active steps toward reaching your goal. It will probably help if you work in stages.
STAGE I:
Perform with a small group of people you know well and trust...
- Arrange a family concert night for fun. Let each family member have a chance to perform something (acting, singing, telling a joke, etc.) in front of the others. You should use the time to perform something musical.
STAGE II
Perform for one person you know well and trust...
- Tell your closest friend about your dreams of having a music career and ask if you can perform something for them privately.
- Tell your closest friend about your dreams of having a music career and ask if you can perform something for them privately.
STAGE III
Perform with a small group of people you may not know well...
- Get involved with other musical people by joining a choir or a band.
- Get involved with other musical people by joining a choir or a band.
STAGE 1V
Perform for a small group of people you may not know well...
- Invite people to a musical jam &/or get together at your house where you can encourage each other, practice performing and learn new things.
When you feel comfortable with a particular stage you should move on to the next one. That way, you can gradually build your confidence for performing. After all, the more you do it, the easier it will become!
Till next time...
Keep practicing!
